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For half an hour I was in Paradise, and to complete my joy Nature

revealed to me a new and unexpected secret.

I was lying on a bench, basking, and my silk shirt coming open

the strong sun made its way to my breast and presently I felt a

totally new sensation there. I had discovered the last joy of the

skin. My skin, fed by healthy fruit-made blood, must have

functioned normally under the excitation of the sun just then

(for a brief space only, alas!). I cannot describe the joy, any

more than I could describe the taste of a peach to one who has

only eaten apples: it was satisfying, divine. I opened my shirt

wider, but the feeling only spread faintly, and indeed this

halcyon sunny hour terminated in a restlessness that sent me

walking into town to look for A.

At last I heard, not of A., but of Miss T. She was in a ballet. I

went round during rehearsal and while waiting entered into

conversation with a little chorus girl with a good face, who was

sewing. On my telling her whom I was seeking she stopped sewing

and looked at me quickly: "Oh, are you her husband?

I know her.

_I have seen them together_." She looked as if she were going to

tell me something, but merely shook her old-fashioned head in a

mournful, indescribable way, saying "Why don't you keep your wife

with you?" I went to the door and presently saw Miss T. She tried

to avoid me, I thought, and looked more vicious than ever, but

after a minute's thought reluctantly told me where she and A.

were staying. To hide my fears and suspicions I had assumed a

careless demeanor, but I think I should have strangled her had

she refused to tell me. I hastily went to the place indicated and

going up the stairs (to the astonishment of the people) opened

the door and found myself face to face with A.--but how changed!

She had the hard, harlot, loveless look I detested.

I felt for a

few minutes that I did not love her, and she regarded me coldly

too, but presently old habits reinstated themselves.

She put out

her hands, very pitiably, and then was sobbing in my arms. I

could get nothing out of her but sobs, and to this day do not

know where she spent all these weeks nor why she did not write.

Miss T. came in after rehearsal, pale and hard-faced. I greeted

her politely, but was watching her, trying to puzzle out why A.

did not look as she usually did after long absence from coition.

Miss T. took another room in the same house and was soon joined

by another ballet girl, young and very pretty, who soon began to

have fits. A. was always crying until Miss T. went away with her

pretty friend. I knew nothing, could hardly be said to suspect

anything definite, and yet I pitied that pretty girl whose eyes

looked so helpless and appealing.

I set to work again. But I continued to live on fruit and bread,

and taking off my clothes I would stand up at the window in the

sun. A lot of prostitutes, however, who lived at the back saw me

and were scandalized or shocked or thought me mad.

The landlady

heard of it and spoke to A. So I had to desist from my glorious

sun-baths.

We slept on a single bed, and though I did my best to avoid

coitus (I wanted to wait and think out some theory of it), A.,

who knew nothing of this, wanted to resume our old habits, and

finally I surrendered. But my sufferings next day were intense,

and I had the sense of having fallen from some high estate. My

thoughts were divided between two theories: one that our misery

was caused by our diet, more or less; the other that we had

fallen into some error as regards coitus, and this was becoming

almost a certainty with me.

There is one incident I think worthy of note which happened

before the "fall" just mentioned and when I was living on fruit

and in splendid health. At a performance I saw a girl on the

stage with handsome legs in tights, and once as she straightened

her leg the knee-cap going into position gave me such a strange

and keen joy--of that quality I call divine or musical--that I

was like one suddenly awakened to the divinity and beauty of the

female form. The joy was so keen and yet peaceful, familiar, and

subjective that I could not help comparing it to a happy chemical

change in the tissues of my own brain. Like the unexpected

functioning of my skin in the sun it was a sign of a partial

return to a normal condition, another glimpse of Paradise.

I stuck to my new diet and gained a fresh elation and joy in

life. Gradually clothes became insupportable, and I went down to

the beach as often as possible to take them off, and at nights,

beside the patient and astonished A., I would lie naked. One

evening, passing some grass, I looked over the fence like a gipsy

and felt a longing to take off my clothes and sleep in the grass

all night. It was of course impossible. And A.

looked unhappily

in my face; she began to think her mother, who now thought I was

mad, must be right.

That night I woke up and found myself having coition. I was angry

and felt I had been put back in my progress, but a fever of lust

now came over me. I would sit under the tap and let the cold

water run over me to conquer the fever, but at the end of a week

my hopes were frustrated and I even turned against my natural

diet, on which I had made flesh. A., as I expected, went through

her usual fits, and slowly recovered. (If we had connection only

once she in about three weeks had a mild attack of fits; if we

had coition more than once the fits were more severe.) I relapsed

more than once and as a means of impressing my resolution for

future abstinence I would walk for miles in the middle of

pitch-black nights....

Miss T. came over to Adelaide and as I knew nothing definite

against her and heard that she was engaged, I thought perhaps my

suspicions were unfounded and was friendly. But one day in town I

saw her and A. on a tram going out to our cottage.

Even then my

suspicions might not have been awakened, but I saw Miss T. say

something rapidly to A., and A. called out to me,

"Will you be

coming home soon?" And I answered "No." When the tram had gone on

I found myself vaguely wondering what Miss T. wanted to know that

for, for my perceptions were becoming acute enough to understand

women's ways. In another minute I was walking rapidly home. When

I came to the door it was locked. I knocked and knocked and no

one came. I called out and threatened to kick in the door. Still

no one came. Mad with rage I commenced to put my threat into

execution, when the door was opened by Miss T., half-naked, in

her petticoats, and pale as death, but no longer defiant. "So

I've caught you, have I?" I _looked_, but could not trust myself

to speak. Wondering why A. did not appear I went into the

bedroom. She was lying on the bed, just as Miss T.

had left her,

on the verge of a fit, and on seeing me she held out her hands

piteously, and when I stooped over her she whispered, "Send her

away, send her away." Then she became unconscious and going into

the next room I ordered Miss T. (who had managed to scramble on

her dress) out of the house. I spoke scornfully as if addressing

a dog, and she slinked out with a malignant but cowed look I hope

never to see on a woman's face again. What they had been doing

with their clothes off I do not know; women will rather die than

confess. When A. had recovered from her fit she denied that there

had been anything between them, and stuck to it doggedly, but

with such a forlorn look I had not the heart to prosecute my

inquiries.

For my part, all the efforts I had been making for so long seemed

for a time to be in vain; for some weeks I sank into a sort of

satyriasis, and even my anger against Miss T. turned to a

prurient curiosity. At the same time I was not always able to

adhere to my diet. But both as regards coition and diet I was

still fighting, and on the whole successfully. My fits of temper,

however, were excessive and my ennui became gloomy despair. One

day I blasphemed on crossing the Park and spoke contemptuously of

"God and his twopenny ha'penny revolving balls,"

referring to the

planetary system. But for long walks I should have gone mad. A.

was drinking in the intervals of her fits. I found half-empty

bottles of wine hidden away. This did not improve my temper, and

one day--this was when she was well and up--I struck her a heavy

blow on the face, and she aimed a glass decanter at me. She went

home to her mother and I lived alone in the cottage.

I heard soon

afterwards that her husband had come back and that they had made

it up. Our parting was not, however, destined to be final.

Even out of that month's sufferings I made capital.

I was better

after my tendency to lubricity, my gloom, rage, restlessness and

degradation. They had been but the irritations of convalescence.

INDEX OF AUTHORS.

Abrantès, duchesse d'

Adler

Albucasis

Alexander, H.C.B.

Amatus Lusitanus

Ammon

Andersen

Andriezen

Aquinas

Aristophanes

Aristotle

Averroes

Avicenna

Aubrey

Aulnoy, Madame d'

Baer

Ball

Ballantyne, J.W.

Bancroft, H.H.

Barker, Fordyce

Barnes, R.

Bartholin

Bayle

Beale, G.B.

Bechterew

Beck, J.R.

Becker

Bell, Sir C.

Bell, Sanford

Belletrud

Beneden

Bergh

Bianchi

Biérent

Binet

Bischoff, T.L.W.

Bloch, J.

Blondel

Blumenbach

Blunt, J.J.

Boas

Boccaccio

Boeteau

Bois, J.

Bois-Reymond, E. du

Bölsche

Booth, D.S.

Booth, J.

Bouchereau

Bouchet

Bourke, J.G.

Boveri

Brand

Braun

Brantôme

Brehm

Breitenstein

Brénier de Montmorand

Brénot

Brouardel

Brown-Séquard

Brügelmann

Buckman, S.S.

Bucknill

Bunge

Burchard

Burdach

Burton, Robert

Buschan

Busdraghi

Cabanis

Campbell, J.F.

Campbell, H.

Carpenter, E.

Casanova

Cascella

Castelnau

Catullus

Cecca

Celsus

Chapman, C.W.

Charcot

Chaucer

Chaulant

Chevalier

Chidley, W.

Cladel, J.

Clement, of Alexandria

Coe

Coen

Collineau

Colman, W.S.

Columbus, R.

Cook, G.W.

Crawley

Cumston

Cuvier

Cyples

Dabney

Darwin, C.

Darwin, E.

Daumas

Dearborn, G.

Dembo

Deniker

Dessoir, Max

Dickinson, R.L.

Diderot

Disselhorst

Donaldson, H.H.

Douglas, C.

Drähms

Dühren, E.

Dufougère

Dufour

Dulaure

Duncan, Matthews

East, A.

Edgar, Clifton

Ellis, Havelock

Engelmann

Erotion

Esbach

Eschricht

Espinas

Eulenburg

Evans

Ezekiel

Fabricius

Fallopius

Féré

Fichstedt

Flood, E.

Florence

Fothergill, Milner

Frazer, J.G.

Freud

Freyer

Froriep

Fuchs

Fürbringer

Galen

Gardiner, C.F.

Garnier

Gautier, A.

Gautier, T.

Gellhoen

Gerhard, A.

Giles, A.

Godin

Goethe

Goncourt, E. de

Gopcevic

Goron

Gould

Gow

Graaf, de

Griffiths

Groos, K.

Gualino

Guéniot

Guibaut

Guillereau

Guinard

Guttceit

Hack

Haddon

Haig

Hall, G. Stanley

Haller

Hamilton, A.

Hammond

Hardy, Thomas

Hartland, E.S.

Harvey

Hegar

Henderson, J.

Henle

Hennig

Herman

Herodotus

Herrick

Heusinger

Hewitt, Graily

Hippocrates

Hirst

Hislop, J.T.

Hoche

Horrocks

Howard, W.L.

Howell

Howitt, A.W.

Hrdlicka

Hughes, C.H.

Hunter, John

Hunter, William

Huysmans

Hyades

Hyrtl

Jacobi

Jacoby, P.

Jahn

Janet

Janke

Jastreboff

Jenkyns, J.

Johnston, G.A.

Johnston, Sir H.H.

Jonson, Ben

Juvenal

Kaltenbach

Kelly, H.

Kepler

Kiernan, J.G.

Kisch

Kleinpaul

Kobelt

Kocher

Kohlbrugge

Kolbein

Krafft-Ebing

Krauss

Lamb, D.S.

Landes, L. de

Lane

Lasègue

Laurent, E.

Lawrence, Sir W.

Laycock

Levi

Licetus

Liébault

Liétaud

Lipps

Litzmann

Lombroso

Lorion

Lortet

Lucas, J.C.

Lucretius

Lunier

Luschka

Lusini

Lydston

Macdonald, A.

MacGillicuddy

McKay, A.

Mackay, W.J.S.

Mackenzie, J.

Magnan

Malebranche

Mantegazza

Marandon de Montyel

Marc

Marro

Marshall, H.R.

Martial

Martin, J.M.H.

Martineau

Maschka

Masterman

Matignon

Mattel

McMordie

Mercier

Meredith, Ellis

Middleton, T.

Mirabeau

Mitchell, Sir A.

Moll

Mongeri

Morache

Moraglia

Morris, R.T.

Morselli

Motet

Moulin, J. Mansell

Müller, J.

Mundé, P.

Näcke

Neale, R.

Neri

Nicholson, H.O.

Nina Rodrigues

Obici

Onanoff

Ottolenghi

Ovid

Pacheco

Palfyn

Park, Mungo

Papillault

Pasini

Paterson, A.R.

Paulini

Paulus Æginetus

Pearse, W.H.

Pearson, Karl

Pechuel-Loesche

Pelanda

Pennant

Penta

Pfaff

Pierer

Pillon

Pinæus

Pinard

Pitre, C.

Pitres

Pittard

Plant

Plautus

Pliny

Ploss

Poehl

Polemon

Pollux

Porta, Della

Power

Pyle

Raymond

Régis

Régnier, H. de

Reinach, S.

Renooz, Céline

Restif de la Bretonne

Retterer, E.

Reynolds, A.R.

Rhys, J.

Ribot

Riedel

Rimbaud

Riolan

Robinson, Bryan

Robinson, Louis

Rodin

Roederer

Roons, R.P.

Rosse, Irving

Roth, W.

Rothe

Roubaud

Rousseau

Routh, C.H.F.

Rufus

Russell, W.

Sade, de

Salmon, W.

Scherzer

Schinz

Schmiedeberg

Schreiner

Schrenck-Notzing

Schurig

Scott, Colin

Scripture, E.W.

Seerley

Seligmann

Sellheim

Shakespeare

Shattock

Shufeldt

Silk, J.F.W.

Simon, H.

Simpson, Sir J.

Sims, Marion

Smith, Sir A.

Smith, Haywood

Sömmering

Soranus

Spigelius

Stahl, F.A.

Stanton

Stendhal

Stengel

Stern, B.

Stevens, Vaughan

Stieda

Stratz

Stubbs

Suidas

Sukhanoff

Sullivan, W.C.

Sutherland, W.D.

Sutton, Bland

Swift

Tarde

Tardieu

Tarnier

Taxil

Theocritus

Thoinot

Thompson, W.L.

Thomson, J.

Tilt

Toff

Tourdes, G.

Tridandani

Trochon

Vahness

Valentin

Varigny, H de

Variot, G.

Varro

Vaschide

Vatsyayana

Venette

Venturi

Vesalius

Vinay

Vinci, L. da

Voigt

Voisin, J.

Vurpas

Wagner, R.

Waldeyer

Walker, G.

Wallace, A.W.

Warton

Wasserschleben

Weininger, O.

Wellhausen

Werner

Wernich

West, J.P.

Wharton

Wilhelm, Eugen

Wilkin, G.

Wilkinson, A.D.

Williams, J.W. Whitridge

Williamson, C.F.

Wolff, B.

Wollstonecraft, Mary

Wordsworth

Wychgel

Youatt

Zaborsky

Zoppi

Zimmer

Zola

INDEX OF SUBJECTS.

Abyssinians,

coitus among

Acquired element in erotic symbolism

Acromegaly and sexual development

Alcohol,

aphrodisiac effects of

Algolagnia,

in relation to scatologic symbolism

as a form of erotic symbolism

Anæsthesia,

sexual

Anæsthetics in relation to sexual excitement Anaphrodisiacs

Animal copulation,

attraction of

Animals,

detumescence in

Annamites,

coitus among

Antipathies of pregnant women

Anus in relation to pubic hair

as an erogenous zone

Apes,

sexual organs of

sexual congress in

Aphrodisiacs

Apples,

longings of women for

Arabs,

penis in

Artist,

compared to lover

Associations of contiguity and resemblance in erotic symbolism

Australian method of sexual congress

Auto-suggestions,

longings of pregnancy as

Bartholin,

glands of

Beard in relation to sexual development Beauty,

the objective element in

Bestiality

Bladder in relation to sexual excitement Blood during pregnancy

Blood-pressure during detumescence

Breasts,

and erotic temperament

during pregnancy

Bromide as an anaphrodisiac

Bulbo-cavernous reflex

Camphor as an anaphrodisiac

Cantharides,

effects of

Castration,

results of

Celery as an aphrodisiac

Children,

attracted to foot

to scatology

to copulation of animals

to hair

food impulses of

Chinese,

foot-fetichism of

Circulatory conditions during coitus

during pregnancy

Clitoris

Clothes,

erotic fascination of

Coitus,

the phenomena of

the methods of

ethnic variations in methods of

respiratory and circulatory cond