18 Paradigm Frob to Manipulate your Destiny by Aman V. Varma - HTML preview

INFLUENCE MINDSET

Dictionary meanings:

The power to affect, control or manipulate something or someone; the ability to change the development of fluctuating things such as conduct, thoughts or decisions.

To affect by gentle action; to exert an influence upon; to modify, bias, or sway; to persuade or induce.

The capacity to have an effect on the character, development, or behavior of someone or something, or the effect itself.

The concept:

The fourth mindset I want you to cultivate is "influence mindset" which is all about training your mind to form a habit to become project and come off as an influential individual.

Look, here is the secret. 99% of the people around you unconsciously look for a person in the crowd who knows what he is doing and where he is heading to. People now days don't know anything about themselves and where they are going in life. They need structure, they need a light house that can enlighten their path and tell them "here human! This is where you need to go and this is exactly what you need to do"

And when they see such kind of person who walks with self assurance, they cannot help but instantly start following him.

There are some fundamentals that are responsible to make success in any aspect of life. It is like a default blueprint for some things to work out well and one of that basic foundational key is influence.

If you want to generate results in any area of your life (business, relationships, health, social gathering, etc) then you have to be influential, meaning that you need to have the power to manipulate, create, design, control, modify and implement any thought & resources (people, systems, beliefs, everything) that align the fundamentals together and make the creation possible.

In short, you need to be able to bend the world according to your needs, with dominant force & self assurance, to generate desired output. That's the only way out.

The main reason to develop this mindset is to be able to actualize your dream life/vision.

How to develop influence mindset?

1. Have a vision for yourself. Know exactly where you want to go. Be flexible with approach & methods but firm with your destination. Fix your course on a star and you will never fall off your path.
2. Be dominant. Get what you want, anyhow. Do whatever is required to get where you want to be. Be stubborn on your path.
3. Be selfish. Do what you think is right. Be very choosy where and on what you spend your time, money and energy on.
4. Provide a bigger vision to the people. If you want to be a world influencer provide hope for the betterment of humanity. If you want to be an influence in relationships provide more positive, optimistic, uplifting and vibrant ideal vision about your future to your spouse or family. If you want to be an influencer in your business provides ambitious, bigger, wealthier, and advantageous growth oriented vision to your company.
5. Whatever you do, project that you can make it better. That you can optimize it, you can control and direct it. Don't care about what people think, let them see the hunger for greatness is your eyes. Let them see your world class skills in your actions. Let them see your transformation and evolution to something greater.

"No men ever achieved anything great without having an influence on outer world"

"An artist's sphere of influence is the world" - Carl Weber