Now that we have a good idea how we behave, we must remember that the categories above apply to different people at various degrees. The descriptions above define generally what those groups of people have in common. A person with the more extreme style will display those characteristics more pronounced.
We must move on to the most important step which is being able to relate to your date in a way that he or she will be attracted to you. In other words, you must relate to her HOT BUTTON.
I will list down how what would be considered a date’s worst nightmare as it related to their personality quadrant. These people will find such a date, a very big turn-off, and will most likely not want to see their date again after the first encounter. As a result, we must pay attention that our advances do not put them in a situation with too much pressure. We will also take a closer look at their responses in high pressure situations.
The majority of the time, people will form their opinions of you during their first impression (most likely after the first date, it is a good indication how it will affect the rest of the relationship).
Remember once again, that 75% of other people are not like us. So it helps to anticipate how they will react to situations and the predictability of their actions will help us to make intelligent guesswork.