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11. GRATEFUL/JOY

-----Original Message-----

From: Joseph

To: Jenny

Sent: Thu, Jul 29 (one year later)10:32 am

Subject: FW: Today's Gift – 07/29

Hi, Jenny

I read my reading today and wanted to share it. I'm not saying that you need it; I just like it so much that I wanted to share it. Also, I remember a time when I used to share them with you almost on a daily basis. Take care of you and keep smiling!

Always,

Joseph

Today’s thought is:

Fair play is primarily not blaming others for anything that is wrong with us.

--Eric Hoffer

As adults, we accept responsibility for our feelings and our circumstances. We haven’t chosen our own troubles, but we have the job of dealing with them. If a man falls and breaks a leg, he might say to someone, "It’s your fault, and I’ll make you pay for this!" But that won’t fix his leg. The healing still has to come from within.

Our impulse to blame others is an attempt to escape our responsibilities. We become overcritical. We want someone else to take the rap for our pain and our misdeeds, but this only delays our wholeness. There is no point in blaming ourselves either. When we first confront our discomfort directly and accept responsibility for dealing with it, we feel an inner urge to escape again. If we stay with the discomfort a while, a new stage begins – the healing and acceptance stage. A feeling of wholeness comes, a feeling of being a real person, of having reached our full size.

May I not indulge in blame today - toward myself or anyone else. Instead, may I be strong and responsible.

From: Jenny

To: Joseph

Sent: Thu, Jul 29 3:32 pm

Subject: Re: Today's Gift - 07/29

Yes, I do remember and I'm grateful everyday that I have passed that place. However, I'm still working on what drew that to me. I feel confident, in-charge, happy etc I still don't have the answer but I do know some things are related to Karma. Will always continue to evolve.  I love you !!!!!!

Jenny

-----Original message----- From: Joseph

To: Jenny

Sent: Fri, Feb 11 (two years later) 12:27:11 GMT+00:00

Subject: One Word

Good Morning, Jenny!

How are you? I hope you are well. I'm doing fine. If you get a chance, will you please complete this and return it to me. Remember, I asked you to fill it out about 2 years ago?

I know some things - a lot of things have changed since then. Love you, Jenny!

Keep smiling.

Joseph

USING ONLY ONE WORD

Not as easy as you might think!  change the answers to suit you and pass it on. It's really hard to only use one word answers. Be sure to send back to the person you received it from!

From: Jenny

To: Joseph

Date: Fri, 11 Feb 08:58:19 -0600

Subject: Re: One Word

USING ONLY ONE WORD

Not as easy as you might think! Reply , change the answers to suit you and reply to me. It's really hard to only use one word answers.

Where is your cell phone?

purse

Your best friend?

honest

Your hair?

blonde

Your mother?

smart

father?

handsome

Your favorite thing?

love

Your dream last night?

forgotten

Your favorite drink?

merlot

Your dream/goal?

adored

What room are you in?

office

Your hobby?

cards

Your fear?

failure

Where do you want to be in 6 years?

popular

Where were you last night?

dancing

Something that you aren't?

mean

Muffins?

nope

Wish list item?

forgiveness

Last thing you did?

call

TV?

off

Your pets?

none

Friends?

inconsistent

Your life?

blessed

Your mood?

calm

Missing someone?

mother

Drinking?

water

Smoking?

never

Your car?

Mustang

Something you're not wearing?

watch

Your favorite store?

Nordstrom

Your favorite color?

white

When is the last time you cried?

months

Where do you go to over and over?

journal

My favorite place to eat?

Italian

Favorite place I'd like to be at right now?

present

[There will be joy in the morning. The night will not last forever. Joy will come. Believe it and receive it. Some nights last longer than others but the morning will come and there will be joy. The sun is rising!]