Myths make up over half of everything we were taught as children. One of the major myths that have been ingrained in us since the beginning is the cliché "Nice Guys Finish Last." What a load of garbage! Some of the people referenced as "Nice" carry the characteristic of shyness, making them the outer rim of the target for beautiful women and "cool" friends. This, like with everything else, flees in time, and not always because they stop being shy. Sometimes it takes longer for people to realize that the "Nice" runs deeper than any other characteristic and can make them a real target in their future.
If you have been labeled as one of those "nice" guys, don’t listen to this myth! In fact, this article is dedicated to you and the breaking down of this great misconception. Here we will explore the many truths about Nice Guys and how they do not finish last, that is, they actually have a rather sharp edge that most do not even know how to posses.
One of the major concerns for those who have been labeled "Nice” is their lack of ability to build relationships. This is also concerning the ever desirable life partner relationship, and the ability to seem as a potential candidate. This is what this article truly addresses, as well as the little, intricate details that can assist the "Nice" crowd in this endeavor.
With women being born more frequently than men, it is no wonder that Nice Guys now have the ability to finish first more than any other period in history. Yes, this is not one of the most desirable answers; however it also proves that it is not a hopeless cause, and that building a meaningful relationship is not far in your incredible future.
Statistically speaking, most women spend their twenties focusing on their lives and living for the moment, and it is not until they reach their thirties that they begin to consider marriage and having children. This is not a bad thing, as it is a very affective filter. Consider the usual state of men at that age: career focused, womanizers, drug users, different sexual orientation, and the list goes on. In fact, one of the only groups remaining intact during this phase of life is the "Nice" crowd.
With all of this in play, the world becomes a better place for those good, old fashioned nice folk. Women begin to look for the man that will be able to encourage them, to help them reach their potential. This new outlook on their criteria for men comes with maturity and a broader perspective given through the course of life.
All of this is grand and great to think about, but never take only being nice as the key to an excellent future. Never make this mistake, because by the age of maturity for woman, they rightfully desire someone who either has their life in order or is on their way to order. Make sure that you are taking care of yourself and where you are heading. If all of you focusing on are getting into a relationship with a beautiful woman, then you may want to reconsider your position as on of the Nice Guys who will Finish First.