Summary:
It’s A Continuous Process
As you embark on your own quest to become a magnetic person, there are a few more things you need to know.
1.) Once you’ve attracted or “magnetized” a dream mate, you need to follow through.
The poise, character and personality that drew your dream mate to you shouldn’t die down or disappear once you start dating one another or start a relationship. You need to be the “real deal”! What your dream mate saw in you on day one should be what he or she will experience from then on—and even more so, as the two of you get to know one another deeply.
2.) Never settle for anything less than the best.
After all that hard work you put in to become the new, magnetic you, why should you accept the very first person you “snare” in as your mate?
Don’t get desperate, or too lonely and emotional! Remember, you built yourself up to be this beautiful person who deserves only the best—so don’t settle for anyone less than the best for you.
Keep your eyes peeled. You’re not the only “person- magnet” out there, and some of them aren’t what they seem to be.
Oftentimes, we can get caught up in the sexual attraction we feel with someone. The poise he or she possesses, the way he or she looks, speaks and moves can take such a strong hold over us that we can’t think of anything else other than becoming physically intimate with them as soon as possible. Sexual attraction can really pull us in all sorts of directions that we aren’t prepared for, and don’t know how to handle. It’s OK to want someone that you are physically attracted to, but you should always rein yourself in and check if that person proves to be the very same dream mate you once described in your mind map.
Don’t settle for the flashy, magnetic personality with nothing underneath to back it up. You don’t want that to be said of your own self; why should there be a different standard for your potential dream mate?
Remember, this is your life. You have the right and duty to enjoy it, and share your joy with others who will share just as much.
Your one true love needn’t be another duplicate of you— far from it—but you should aim for someone who understands who you are, and will stand by you, come what may. In other words, pick a soul mate who’s a real and faithful person- magnet, like yourself!