Never let yourself get lost in the crowd, then, or buried in oblivion. Stand out.
Why do you try to fit in when you are made to stand out? You are special and unique in your own way. Others are doing it doesn't mean you should join them. When you stand you, men will look for you.
Whatever you find yourself doing, be the best there is. Let people get attracted by your works, your words. Let them marvel at you.