Often, in contemporary times, there seems a good deal of conflict of ideas about modern young women in liberal and economically well off cultures. It seems, there are growing numbers of men, who have increasingly come to believe that ‘women in such cultures have already got enough and they are still complaining pointlessly’.
Also, one comes across so many young men, who openly declare that ‘young modern women are becoming neurotic and pointlessly see things, which are never there’.
Often, fact and fictions are so inter-mingled in a culture and minds of people that it is impossible to say, ‘how much is fact and how much fiction in the concoction’ about attitudes and mindsets of modern liberal, well off women!
A wider look into realism somehow suggests, men may be ‘overly’ apprehensive but still, they are not entirely wrong. Many young liberal women also admit of their ‘over-reactionary’ perspectives about many issues, concerning them. Most however do not understand why it is happening...!
The crucial point however is, for both men and women to accept that the world still remains a men-dominated world and most populist worldviews and prevailing benchmarks of utility and righteousness are decided by men – from society, culture, politics, economy to religion.
Therefore, do women feel ‘unsettled’ because they have been given just a ‘pittance of actual freedom’ as true liberty of ‘equitable partnership’ in wider decision-making is still elusive?
Moreover, even if women are ‘neurotic’, can men be acquitted of their share of blame as the women surely do not live in an isolated world? The men are all around and most certainly ‘omnipresent’ in all their thoughts and actions. Moreover, men are also very ‘keen’ on ‘owning’ all joys for their women... why can’t they own their ‘neurotic’ situations...?
It is for the smart and receptive mind consciousness of a man to understand and accept that the gender differences in mind consciousness are there but they are actually good for the probability of the inevitability of mutuality. Evolution has designed these differences for larger and better survival and wellness of both men and women. A real man truly respects these segregations yet always eyes on working out the probability of enhanced symbiosis and symmetry between the two complementing mind consciousnesses.
It is truly beautiful to see, understand and accept that women have to be different from men and must have different something from men as it enhances survival and excellence of humanity as a whole. It needs innocence acceptance to realize that life has been created in pairs and two entities forming a pair should ideally never be similar but different. It enhances survival and wellness. However, different entities need be in synergy and symmetry.
Real caring men also have to accept that contemporary clutter culture and rising anxieties are eroding the innate mind consciousnesses of modern women. Therefore, if contemporary women show up more cultured behavior than there instinctive and natural selves, men have to be more considerate. Men are men... they must care...
Women have different sensitivities and she expresses them in her own distinct ways. Therefore, when she is saying, when she wants you to listen, cease to be a man with a man’s instinct, rather become a man with a kid’s sensitivities. Accept her uniqueness with innocence and love her sensitivities as it would land you in good stead too. Pamper her, prompt her, take her in, kiss her eyes and tresses, and navigate your soft assuring touch through her chiselled undulations to facilitate her golden and honey-dew expressions. This is some treasure; men really need to value more than outer material attainments.
Evolution may be a stupid engineering, yet in has created two very complementing entities of male and female. So, when a woman is expressing her sensitivities, her concerns or simply wishing to have her words, her man must treat her as an angel and be extra inventive and even artistic in loving her. She needs it and deserves it. And it is all there for her man’s joys.
The core question is – never ever human cultures have been hit by as much ‘gender-divide’ as prevailing today. If we truly live in liberal and intelligent societies with enough resources for good living, then there must be huge lot of pluses for a beautifully beneficial man-woman symbiosis and symmetry...
Let’s us talk about it and initiate a process of inclusion of ideas....
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