At least you are accepting now that you make the decisions that affect your life. You have free will to choose. Be quiet and still. How can you make a good decision without a peaceful and orderly mind? You are going to need all your deductive powers and for your mind to be at maximum efficiency. Relax your body and know that you are a peaceful soul. You're now ready.
You see things as so bewildering and confusing, how is a wise decision possible in this world? Know it is. When you're making the choice from a peaceful mindset the right choice will come – and clearly. Remember you are no longer just a powerless individual alone to face it all. You are together to make these decisions. A decision made from a peaceful mind, done in a loving way can never be the wrong decision.
Don't rush each decision as everyone tends to do. You don't have to choose straight away. Never force it. Weigh up the pros and cons and give your mind a chance to make the right choice.
Trust yourself that the decision is the correct one. If you do it in this way it will be. Don't keep looking back and pondering it. Accept it as the right choice and that you can move forward from here.