a person who enjoys you cringing under their power. The abuse cannot be allowed to continue as a situation of fear develops, which of course is the opposite of love. To do what is for the highest good for that other, you have to stop the abuse continuing for both your sakes. Doing what is best for you, in turn becomes what is best for them.
Develop your true self and come together in a loving situation. Give the greatest gift - self-realisation. This will set you both free.