Chapter Tweny : How To Take The Next Step
OK, so we’re on the way home from coffee (because I said “OK, let’s go…”) and we’re back at my house. Here’s one that I love… if it’s at night, look at your watch and say “Well, I have to get up in the morning… but… OK, you can come in for a few minutes…”
That's great! You’re talking to her like she’s trying to convince you to let her in, and she hasn’t said anything! Nice. (Read it again if you didn't pick up what I said).
Then I just walk in and let her follow. (By the way, again, I always open doors for women, walk on the outside of the curb, and pull chairs out etc.) If you act chivalrous and bust her balls at the same time, you’ll be rewarded with good things from Santa.
So now we’re in the house… and I take her for a tour… and either sit down on my bed to talk to her, or on the couch… wherever we kind of wind up. And I just kind of get a little quieter and let her talk while I look at her. I lean away from her and keep looking… sometimes looking away as if I’m thinking about something.
Then, I reach over and start stroking her hair while she’s talking. I stroke down at the bottom first. If she’s OK with this, I take it as a sign that she’s WAAYYYYY into me and is probably going to be wanting sex within 60 minutes (if you have any doubts, ask a woman if she’ll let a guy stroke her hair while she’s on his bed on the first date if she’s not into him).
This is a big piece of the puzzle that I’ve figured out… I used to do all kinds of massages and other stuff, but I now use the simple hair stroke test. If they like their hair stroked, they are at VERY LEAST going to be making out with me in short order, period. I’ll occasionally do a hand massage here, or a little neck massage, but next I pull her close to me and cuddle with her… and then land the killer.
I have personally always liked the way women smell… so when she’s laying next to me with me stroking her hair, I begin to smell her shoulders… just a little at first, and then more and more… while stroking her hair. Within about 5 or 10 minutes, I’m smelling her neck and ears… no kissing, and no groping at all. Never! I’m just smelling, then leaning back and acting like I’m completely enjoying the smelling, and it’s relaxing me.
Try this, my friends… if you can keep on smelling… she’ll get so turned on that you won’t believe it! At some point she’ll try to kiss me… which is what I’m waiting for. I will let her lips get close to mine… even touch just a teensy bit… and then I’ll back away. And keep smelling. I might say “Oh, you’re kind of forward” … love it. After a few of these, I’ll kiss her… and run my hands through her hair… the whole romantic kiss thing… then, again, I’ll stop. This kind of teasing and teasing is very stimulating to women. They Love it.
I'm waiting for her to start doing something that is sexual... for instance grinding her hips on me... or grabbing my ass... whatever. When I'm patient, the woman will usually do something that is subtly sexual FIRST. This is key, as she's then the aggressor....
Then I do a little verbal move and say "All you have to do is say PLEASE."
I'm laughing as I write this... damn this is great.
So the first time, she'll say "No no no... I'm not going to beg you..." and I just say "OK"...
Then I roll over or just lay back and look up... away from her. This usually makes the woman begin to wonder what the heck is going on, and come over and start cuddling, kissing, etc. me again.
I keep on with the sensual kissing, breathing in her ears... all that good stuff... and when she gets worked up again and I hear her breathing get faster, heart rate increase etc. I just say "All you have to do is say PLEASE..."
OK, you get the idea... I keep doing this until she say's "OK OK, please... please..."
If you need help on what to do after this, buy a copy of "How To Drive Your Woman Wild In Bed" by Masterson and "Sexational Secrets" by Bakos. Do it.