This books is all about one thing and one thing only. You must be made safe. The man should be made to think twice about ever touching a woman against her will again. Remember, he is violat-ing the sanctity of women, and that is sacred.
There are unwritten rules when it comes to physical linking, intercourse. If the man wants sexual intercourse and the women doesn’t then does it happen? NO.
If the man wants sexual intercourse and so does the woman, then does it happen? YES.
So who has the power? You do of course.
In a sexual attack these rules are broken.
What is said next is radically different to anything said before. You have to get those ground rules back and you can’t do it physically, so do it mentally.
Normally it has been said ‘don’t fight.’ The ‘think of your country’
syndrome. Its what women have been told for years.
Well, men now believe it themselves, and that is going to be to your advantage. If the man is holding you down. Don’t fight. He is physically stronger than you, if you struggle you will only waste energy.
At the particular time that he is sitting astride with his hands on your wrists, he can do precisely nothing. To attempt any further assault, he must let go. If you have relaxed then he will be fooled into a false sense of security.
If the man is raping, intercourse is occurring, he will probably be holding the hands. If the hands are being held, then they MUST
be released.
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How? The solution is simple, but you have to use your guile.
Think on this. Men are extremely gullible when it comes to women.
A woman can control any man by just using her intellect. Men think that they are ‘god’s gift’ when it comes to sexual attraction.
Answer this question truthfully. Can you fool a man with your emotions? Any woman can. You cannot use force to free your hands, he must release them voluntarily. To do this you must gain his confidence.
Remember, men are extremely gullible. If you begin by telling him that what he is doing is making you feel wonderful, he’s a great lover, he’s the ‘bees knees’. At first he will be startled, but after a short time his ego takes over, he will actually begin to believe what you are saying.
Euphoria sets in “I’m the great lover”. He will begin to relax a little.
Keep saying these platitudes. You need your hands free. Take your time, don’t rush, you’ve got to fool him completely.
Tell him that you want to hold him close, anything that allows you to move your hands freely. When the hands are free, begin to move them slowly. Get them to either side of the head, its a natural position for love making, and remember, you’re fooling him. Place the hands gently, not forcefully, with the fingers to the rear of the head and the palms by the temple.
You can now effect your release with ease, but what you are about to do requires no half measures. Its all or nothing.
NO MAN HAS THE RIGHT TO TOUCH YOU
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