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He continued (in rather complicated language, hence paraphrasing)

that at no stage can a 'goodness' be achieved which is impervious to

new conflicts, and that to believe so is dangerous and inept.

The crisis stages are not sharply defined steps. Elements tend to

overlap and mingle from one stage to the next and to the preceding

stages. It's a broad framework and concept, not a mathematical formula

which replicates precisely across all people and situations.

Erikson was keen to point out that the transition between stages is

'overlapping'. Crisis stages connect with each other like inter-laced

fingers, not like a series of neatly stacked boxes. People don't suddenly

wake up one morning and be in a new life stage. Changes don't happen

in regimented clear-cut steps. Changes are graduated, mixed-together

and organic. In this respect the 'feel' of the model is similar to other

flexible human development frameworks (for example, Elisabeth

Kübler-Ross's 'Grief Cycle', and Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs).

Where a person passes unsuccessfully through a psychosocial crisis

stage they develop a tendency towards one or other of the opposing

forces (either to the syntonic or the dystonic, in Erikson's language),

which then becomes a behavioural tendency, or even a mental problem.

In crude terms we might call this 'baggage' or a 'hang-up', although

perhaps avoid such terms in serious work. I use them here to illustrate

that Erikson's ideas are very much related to real life and the way

ordinary people think and wonder about things.

Erikson called an extreme tendency towards the syntonic (first

disposition) a 'maladapation', and he identified specific words to

represent the maladapation at each stage. He called an extreme

tendency towards the dystonic (second disposition) a 'malignancy', and

again he identified specific words to represent the malignancy at each

stage. More under 'Maladapations' and 'Malignancies'.

Erikson emphasised the significance of and 'mutuality' and

'generativity' in his theory. The terms are linked. Mutuality reflects the

effect of generations on each other, especially among families, and

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particularly between parents and children and grandchildren. Everyone

potentially affects everyone else's experiences as they pass through the

different crisis stages. Generativity, actually a named disposition within

one of the crisis stages (Generativity v Stagnation, stage seven), reflects

the significant relationship between adults and the best interests of

children - one's own children, and in a way everyone else's children -

the next generation, and all following generations.

Generations affect each other. A parent obviously affects the child's

psychosocial development, but in turn the parent's psychosocial

development is affected by their experience of dealing with the child

and the pressures produced. Same for grandparents. Again this helps

explain why as parents (or teachers or siblings or grandparents) we can

often struggle to deal well with a young person when it's as much as we

can do to deal with our own emotional challenges.

In some ways the development actually peaks at stage seven, since

stage eight is more about taking stock and coming to terms with how

one has made use of life, and ideally preparing to leave it feeling at

peace. The perspective of giving and making a positive difference for

future generations echoes Erikson's humanitarian philosophy, and it's

this perhaps more than anything else that enabled him to develop such

a powerful concept.

Freud's influence on erikson's theory

Erikson's psychosocial theory of the 'eight stages of human

development' drew from and extended the ideas of Sigmund Freud and

Freud's daughter Anna Freud, and particularly the four (or five,

depending on interpretation) Freudian stages of development, known

as Freud's psychosexual stages or Freud's sexual theory. These

concepts are fundamental to Freudian thinking and are outlined below

in basic terms relating to Erikson's psychosocial stages.

Freud's concepts, while influential on Erikson, are not however

fundamental to Erikson's theory, which stands up perfectly well in its

own right.

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It is not necessary therefore to understand or agree with Freud's ideas

in order to appreciate and use Erikson's theory. If you naturally relate

to Freud's ideas fine, otherwise leave them to one side.

Part of Erikson's appeal is that he built on Freud's ideas in a socially

meaningful and accessible way - and in a way that did not wholly rely

on adherence to fundamental Freudian thinking. Some of Freud's

theories by their nature tend attract a lot of attention and criticism -

sex, breasts, genitals, and bodily functions generally do - and if you are

distracted or put off by these references then ignore them, because they

are not crucial for understanding and using Erikson's model.

Freud's psychosexual stages - overview

Age guide is a broad approximation, hence the overlaps. The stages

happen in this sequence, but not to a fixed timetable.

Freudian psychosexual stages - overview

Erikson's

age guide

psychosocial

crisis stages

1. Oral Stage - Feeding, crying, teething, biting, 1. Trust v 0-1½

yrs,

thumb-sucking, weaning - the mouth and the Mistrust

baby, birth to

breast are the centre of all experience. The

walking

infant's actual experiences and attachments to

mum (or maternal equivalent) through this

stage have a fundamental effect on the

unconscious mind and thereby on deeply

rooted feelings, which along with the next two

stages affect all sorts of behaviours and

(sexually powered) drives and aims - Freud's

'libido' - and preferences in later life.

2. Anal Stage - It's a lot to do with pooh - 2. Autonomy 1-3

yrs,

'holding on' or 'letting go' - the pleasure and v Shame and toddler, toilet

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control. Is it dirty? Is it okay? Bodily expulsions Doubt

training

are the centre of the world, and the pivot

around which early character is formed. Am I

pleasing my mum and dad? Are they making me

feel good or bad about my bottom? Am I okay or

naughty? Again the young child's actual

experiences through this stage have a deep

effect on the unconscious and behaviours and

preferences in later life.

3. Phallic Stage - Phallic is not restricted to boys. 3. Initiative v 3-6 yrs, pre-

This stage is focused on resolving reproductive Guilt

school,

issues. This is a sort of dry run before the real

nursery

game starts in adolescence. Where do babies

come from? Can I have a baby? Why has dad got

a willy and I've not? Why have I got a willy and

mum hasn't? Why do they tell me off for

touching my bits and pieces down there? (Boys)

I'm going to marry mum (and maybe kill dad).

(Girls) I'm in love with my dad. Oedipus

Complex, Penis envy, Castration Anxiety, etc. "If

you touch yourself down there it'll fall off/heal

up.." Inevitably once more, experiences in this

stage have a profound effect on feelings and

behaviour and libido in later life. If you want to

know more about all this I recommend you read

about Freud, not Erikson, and I repeat that

understanding Freud's psychosexual theory is

not required for understanding and using

Erikson's concepts.

4. Latency Stage - Sexual dormancy or 4. Industry v 5-12

yrs,

repression. The focus is on learning, skills, Inferiority

early school

schoolwork. This is actually not a psychosexual

stage because basically normally nothing

formative happens sexually. Experiences, fears

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and conditioning from the previous stages have

already shaped many of the child's feelings and

attitudes and these will re-surface in the next

stage.

5. Genital stage - Puberty in other words. 5. Identity v 11-18

yrs,

Glandular, hormonal, and physical changes in Role

puberty,

the adolescent child's body cause a resurgence Confusion

teens

of sexual thoughts, feelings and behaviours.

Boys start treating their mothers like woman-

earlier

for

servants and challenge their fathers (Freud's

girls

'Oedipus'). Girls flirt with their fathers and

argue with their mums (Freud's 'Electra'). All

become highly agitated if away from a mirror

for more than half an hour (Freud's Narcissus

or Narcissism). Dating and fondling quickly

push schoolwork and sports (and anything else

encouraged by parents and figures of authority)

into second place. Basically everyone is in

turmoil and it's mostly to do with growing up,

which entails more sexual undercurrents than

parents would ever believe, even though these

same parents went through exactly the same

struggles themselves just a few years before.

It's a wonder anyone ever makes it to

adulthood, but of course they do, and mostly it's

all

perfectly

normal.

This is the final Freudian psychosexual stage.

Erikson's model, which from the start offers a

different

and

more

socially

oriented

perspective, continues through to old age, and

re-interprets Freudian sexual theory into the

adult life stages equating to Erikson's crisis

stages. This incorporation of Freudian sexual

stages into the adult crisis stages is not

especially significant.

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Arguably no direct equivalent Freudian stage, 6. Intimacy v 18-40,

although as from Identity and the Life Cycle Isolation

courting,

(1969) Erikson clearly separated Puberty and

early

Genitality (Freud's Genital stage) , and related

parenthood

each respectively to Identity v Role Confusion,

and Intimacy v Isolation.

No direct equivalent Freudian stage, although 7.

30-65,

Erikson later interpreted this as being a Generativity v middle age,

psychosexual stage of 'Procreativity'.

Stagnation

parenting

Again no direct equivalent Freudian stage. 8. Integrity v 50+, old age,

Erikson later called this the psychosexual stage Despair

grandparents

of 'Generalization of Sensual Modes'.

N.B. This is a quick light overview of Freud's sexual theory and where it

equates to Erikson's crisis stages. It's not meant to be a serious detailed

analysis of Freud's psychosexual ideas. That said, I'm open to

suggestions from any Freud experts out there who would like to offer

improved (quick, easy, down-to-earth) pointers to the Freudian

psychosexual theory.

Erikson's eight psychosocial crisis stages

Here's a more detailed interpretation of Erikson's psychosocial crisis

stages.

Remember age range is just a very rough guide, especially through the

later levels when parenthood timing and influences vary. Hence the

overlap between the age ranges in the interpretation below.

Interpretations of age range vary among writers and academics.

Erikson intentionally did not stipulate clear fixed age stages, and it's

impossible for anyone to do so.

Below is a reminder of the crisis stages, using the crisis terminology of

the original 1950 model aside from the shorter terminology that

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Erikson later preferred for stages one and eight. The 'Life Stage' names

were suggested in later writings by Erikson and did not appear so

clearly in the 1950 model. Age range and other descriptions are general

interpretations and were not shown specifically like this by Erikson.

Erikson's main terminology changes are explained below.

Crisis stages are driven by physical and sexual growth, which then

prompts the life issues which create the crises. The crises are therefore

not driven by age precisely. Erikson never showed precise ages, and I

prefer to state wider age ranges than many other common

interpretations. The final three (adult) stages happen at particularly

variable ages.

It's worth noting also that these days there's a lot more 'life' and

complexity in the final (old age) stage than when the eight stages were

originally outlined, which no doubt fuelled Joan Erikson's ideas on a

'ninth stage' after Erik's death.

Erikson's eight psychosocial stages

age range, other

Psychosocial Crisis Stage Life Stage

descriptions

0-1½ yrs, baby, birth to

1. Trust v Mistrust

Infancy

walking

2. Autonomy v Shame and

1-3 yrs, toddler, toilet

Early Childhood

Doubt

training

3-6 yrs, pre-school,

3. Initiative v Guilt

Play Age

nursery

4. Industry v Inferiority

School Age

5-12 yrs, early school

5. Identity v Role Confusion Adolescence

9-18 yrs, puberty, teens*

6. Intimacy v Isolation

Young Adult

18-40, courting, early

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parenthood

30-65, middle age,

7. Generativity v Stagnation Adulthood

parenting

8. Integrity v Despair

Mature Age

50+, old age, grandparents

* Other interpretations of the Adolescence stage commonly suggest

stage 5 begins around 12 years of age. This is reasonable for most boys,

but given that Erikson and Freud cite the onset of puberty as the start

of this stage, stage 5 can begin for girls as early as age nine.

Erikson's psychosocial theory essentially states that each person

experiences eight 'psychosocial crises' (internal conflicts linked to

life's key stages) which help to define his or her growth and

personality.

People experience these 'psychosocial crisis' stages in a fixed sequence,

but timings vary according to people and circumstances.

This is why the stages and the model are represented primarily by the

names of the crises or emotional conflicts themselves (e.g., Trust v

Mistrust) rather than strict age or life stage definitions. Age and life

stages do feature in the model, but as related rather than pivotal

factors, and age ranges are increasingly variable as the stages unfold.

Each of the eight 'psychosocial crises' is characterised by a conflict

between two opposing positions or attitudes (or dispositions or

emotional forces). Erikson never really settled on a firm recognisable

description for the two components of each crisis, although in later

works the first disposition is formally referred to as the 'Adaptive

Strength'. He also used the terms 'syntonic' and 'dystonic' for

respectively the first and second dispositions in each crisis, but not

surprisingly these esoteric words never featured strongly in

interpretations of Erikson’s terminology, and their usual meanings are

not very helpful in understanding what Erikson meant in this context.

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The difficulty in 'labeling' the first and second dispositions in each crisis

is a reflection that neither is actually wholly good or bad, or wholly

positive or negative. The first disposition is certainly the preferable

tendency, but an ideal outcome is achieved only when it is counter-

balanced with a degree of the second disposition.

Successful development through each crisis is requires a balance and

ratio between the two dispositions, not total adoption of the apparent

'positive' disposition, which if happens can produce almost as much

difficulty as a strong or undiluted tendency towards the second

'negative' disposition.

Some of the crisis stages are easier to understand than others. Each

stage contains far more meaning than can be conveyed in just two or

three words. Crisis stage one is 'Trust versus Mistrust', which is easier

to understand than some of the others. Stage four 'Industry versus

Inferiority' is a little trickier. You could say instead 'usefulness versus

uselessness' in more modern common language. Erikson later refined

'Industry' to 'Industriousness', which probably conveys a fuller

meaning. See the more detailed crisis stages descriptions below for a

clearer understanding.

Successful passage through each stage is dependent on striking the

right balance between the conflicting extremes rather than entirely

focusing on (or being guided towards) the 'ideal' or 'preferable'

extreme in each crisis. In this respect Erikson's theory goes a long way

to explaining why too much of anything is not helpful for developing a

well-balanced personality.

A well-balanced positive experience during each stage develops a

corresponding 'basic virtue' (or 'basic strength - a helpful personality

development), each of which enables a range of other related emotional

and psychological strengths. For example passing successfully through

the Industry versus Inferiority crisis (stage four, between 6-12 years of

age for most people) produces the 'basic psychosocial virtue' of

'competence' (plus related strengths such as 'method', skills,

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techniques, ability to work with processes and collaborations, etc).

More detail is under 'Basic virtues'.

Where passage through a crisis stage is less successful (in other words

not well-balanced, or worse still, psychologically damaging) then to a

varying extent the personality acquires an unhelpful emotional or

psychological tendency, which corresponds to one of the two opposite

extremes of the crisis concerned.

Neglect and failure at any stage is is problematical, but so is too much

emphasis on the apparent 'good' extreme.

For example unsuccessful experiences during the Industry versus

Inferiority crisis would produce a tendency towards being overly

focused on learning and work, or the opposite tendency towards

uselessness and apathy. Describing these unhelpful outcomes, Erikson

later introduced the terms ' maladaptation' (overly adopting 'positive'

extreme) and 'malignancy' (adopting the 'negative' extreme). More

detail is under 'Maladaptations' and 'Malignancies'. In the most extreme

cases the tendency can amount to serious mental problems.

Here is each crisis stage in more detail.

Erikson's psychosocial crisis stages - meanings and interpretations

Erikson used particular words to represent each psychosocial crisis. As

ever, single words can be misleading and rarely convey much meaning.

Here is more explanation of what lies behind these terms.

Erikson reinforced these crisis explanations with a perspective called

'psychosocial modalities', which in the earlier stages reflect Freudian

theory, and which are paraphrased below. They are not crucial to the

model, but they do provide a useful additional viewpoint.

'psychosocial crisis'

/ 'psychosocial

meaning and interpretation

modality'

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1. Trust v Mistrust

The infant will develop a healthy balance

between trust and mistrust if fed and cared for

'To get'

and not over-indulged or over-protected. Abuse

or neglect or cruelty will destroy trust and

'To give in return'

foster mistrust. Mistrust increases a person's

resistance to risk-exposure and exploration.

(To receive and to

"Once bitten twice shy" is an apt analogy. On the

give in return. Trust other hand, if the infant is insulated from all and

is reciprocal -

any feelings of surprise and normality, or

maybe karma

unfailingly indulged, this will create a false

even..)

sense of trust amounting to sensory distortion,

in other words a failure to appreciate reality.

Infants who grow up to trust are more able to

hope and have faith that 'things will generally be

okay'. This crisis stage incorporates Freud's

psychosexual Oral stage, in which the infant's

crucial relationships and experiences are

defined by oral matters, notably feeding and

relationship with mum. Erikson later shortened

'Basic Trust v Basic Mistrust' to simply Trust v

Mistrust, especially in tables and headings.

2. Autonomy v

Autonomy means self-reliance. This is

Shame & Doubt

independence of thought, and a basic confidence

to think and act for oneself. Shame and Doubt

'To hold on'

mean what they say, and obviously inhibit self-

expression and developing one's own ideas,

'To let go'

opinions and sense of self. Toilet and potty

training is a significant part of this crisis, as in

(To direct

Freud's psychosexual Anal stage, where

behaviour outward parental reactions, encouragement and patience

or be retentive. Of

play an important role in shaping the young

course very

child's experience and successful progression

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Freudian...)

through this period. The significance of parental

reaction is not limited to bottoms and pooh - it

concerns all aspects of toddler exploration and

discovery while small children struggle to find

their feet - almost literally - as little people in

their own right. The 'terrible twos' and 'toddler

tantrums' are a couple of obvious analogies

which represent these internal struggles and

parental battles. The parental balancing act is a

challenging one, especially since parents

themselves are having to deal with their own

particular psychosocial c