Romantic Furnace: Relight the Passion with your Ex by J.L. Hemming - HTML preview

Something to remember is not to seem needy, when you see her act as if you are okay, but make sure you do not seem like you are moving on. A great tip I can give you is that if you do not know her phone number, then delete it from your phone and write it down at home.

This is because if you happen to have a little too much to drink when drowning your sorrows you will more then likely end up having a desperate drunk phone call. You should tell your friends not to give you her phone number if they know her and just hope they stick to their word. The last thing you want it to seem like the over emotional, needy ex boyfriend that is just trying to sabotage her new relationship.

You should never give her the idea that you are trying to stop her being with this new guy, this may make her angry and think you are trying to decide things for her. This will more then likely make her want to jump ahead in her new relationship.

What you need to do is just let her know that you are happy enough to chat like friends, just drop in little things about the great times you had together. Reference funny things that you have both been through.

If you were with her for a long time you will most likely get along with her family, if you happen to see them out and about and strike up a conversation just seem happy and make sure you tell them to give your ex your best. Just little things like pressure from families can be enough for you ex to reevaluate her new relationship.

If your ex has a new boyfriend then it will be harder for you, but not impossible so make sure you try hard if you really care about her.

Conclusion

Hopefully I have helped you out by covering all of the main factors stopping you from getting back with your ex. Whether this has allowed you to relight a dwindling relationship or to repair a broken one I am sure you will succeed and bring the love back into your life.

Thank you for taking the time to read through this,

Kind Regards,

J.L. Hemming