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Chapter - 6

Body Language

From thousands of years humans have developed many ways of communication to connect with fellow human beings. We have developed many different languages to express ourselves so people can understand each other in a better way. But from all of them the ancient language which most people don't learn is body language. It's non-verbal language of human behaviour expressing through their body all the time. Body language communicates 60 to 80 percent of total communication that we make with other person. Understanding body language can lead to success in personal and professional relationship.

By noticing the signals that people send out with their body language and being able to effectively read those signal is a very useful skill. You can learn accurately those signals by enough practice, and it can become your second nature. Understanding others body language is useful, but applying useful information to your self can also help you to gain confidence by following ”mind follow body and body follow mind" theory.

Body language is not only communicates in humans but also in animal kingdom too. It's the universal language which people can understand even without saying a word from mouth, a Good example would be smile and crying expression.

How accurate is body language?

Body language is a non-verbal response by our body, which we feel in the current situation in real time. It's direct response of human brain towards the situation, which makes it authentic communication by emotions. Accuracy of body language lies in the person’s hand, how accurately one interpret the signals. One particular signal may not 100% true that you interpret. For example if person crossed his arm ,if you interpret that this person is defensive or closed, it may not be 100 % true , that person might be feeling cold at that time.

In body language making assumption about other person on one particular signal is purely a foolishness. By understanding the collection of different signals you can make correct assumptions to a very good extent, but this does not describes the person entirely.

There are lots of nitty gritty of body language that you can learn from various resource if you are interested in mastering each area. But when it comes to social interaction you basically need two simple signals to look for, that is-positive and negative body language.

By learning these two signal you will be able to know when and how to approach to others without getting rejected or creeping them out.

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Bobby singh