For example, if you want to compliment an actor, compliment the actor in such a way that you uttered that phrase brilliantly in that particular play. Everyone in this world wants to hear their praise, but many people do not know the real art of appreciation. When we have to praise others, we do not appreciate others in any particular way.
The real skill is that we should complement the other on 61
a specific thing or on a particular action that the other will always remember. Learn to make people dependent on you. You must have something special that people must learn from you.
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e have very little time to fulfill our dreams.
One day we have to leave this world. We
W need to remember that we will not live in this world forever. We must do something that we will always be remembered. Whenever we think we have less time, it motivates us. Whenever you wake up in the morning, tell yourself that today is the last day of my life.
You will notice that all fears will go out of your mind.
Live every day as if it is your last day.
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any people think that perfectionism is an excellent thing, and that is why many M people say in their introduction that I am a
Perfectionist, while perfectionism pushes us far behind.
We assume that Practice makes a person perfect, but this is not the case at all. Practice never makes a person perfect, and it is not a human trait at all. Man can never be perfect. There is always room for improvement in an individual.
Man can be better than before, but not perfect.
We are always told to give our best, but we can never give our best. When we look for Perfectionism in everything, we will not be able to ignore our own mistakes and the mistakes of others because it will be in our minds that man cannot make a mistake.
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any times we want to say no to others, but
we are hesitant because we don't know how
M to say no to others. Assertive people
succeed in building better relationships because they never form a relationship that is not on a Win-Win basis.
Assertiveness is a skill that we can use to convey our
