cknowledge that Life is not fair. We must always be ready to face any situation. If we set A expectations, then we will always be seen complaining. We need to keep in mind that not everything can be the way we want it to be. We should not worry about whether the other will reward us for our goodness or not. We must always focus on what is right. We get frustrated when things don't go our way. When we realize that life is not fair, then we will never be depressed.
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t is said that the best investment is in real state, but it is not the case at all. You can make the best I investment in yourself. How do we invest in ourselves? You can try the following things.
1. It is Unswaggy to Complain about Time Management
We don't even have a plan for how we are going to spend the whole day. We delay things very quickly and then later complain that we are not able to manage our time. We should have a daily schedule of how we are going to spend our day. I realized the value of the time when I realized that we don't have to live in this world forever; we have to leave the world one day. I stopped wasting time on things that didn't work for me. I used to do a lot of things that I used to do just to pass my time.
Today I care about where I spend my time, and I keep asking myself if I'm wasting my energy on something over which I have no control . I often say that my day
should be 48 hours instead of 24 hours because I have
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so much to do. We are the enemies of our time. We often go on to procrastinating things. We often delay essential things. When we learn to manage our time, we can make better decisions.
"Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We
have only today. Let us begin."
- Mother Theresa
2. Learning new skills is Swaggy
We can win in the field of life by mastering the skill.
People who say that I feel very motivated by attending motivational seminars, but I start feeling de-motivated after a few days, the reason is that we don't work on our skills. We think we've taken a dose of motivation once and won’t need it again. The reality is pretty much the opposite, like how we brush our teeth every day, the way we have breakfast every day, just like we need to work on our skills and motivation every day. When we learn new skills, then we can deal with difficulties in life in a better way.
Skill to speak better
Ability to listen in an effective way
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Power to write in an impressive way
Capability to explore new things
Aptitude to take better decisions
"Making good decisions is an essential skill at every
level."
- Peter Drucker
3. Believe me; Travelling is Swaggy
Every time you travel, you reach a new world, new ideas start coming to your mind, and you get a great impetus. We travel a lot, but we don't enjoy the journey.
Whenever we travel, we often start listening to songs, and we can't enjoy the scenery along the way. Most people spend their whole lives in one city and never wish to see the entire world. When we travel, we discover things, and our view of the world changes. When we travel, we find the world very beautiful. When we travel, we feel free from worries.
"To Travel is to discover that everyone is wrong about
other countries."
- Aldous Huxley
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have benefited a lot from the Law of attraction. I started using the Law of attraction as a child and I experienced the results very quickly. I have used it in many situations, and I was surprised that it works.
From my childhood, I wanted to be a public figure so that I could influence people. I wanted to teach others. I wanted my words to be so valuable that many people would want to consult me. I wanted to be a leader. I started imagining as I was standing in front of thousands of people, and I was talking to them in a pleasant mood, and they were all my friends and part of my life. I also remember very well that when I was very young, I also loved cricket because I wanted to go to the ground and start hitting six fours, and all the spectators were impressed with me because it was fun to interact with people. When I was a little older, my heart started pounding as if I should go into politics. Some things in cricket and politics are very similar that in both politics and cricket, we have to interact with people. In politics, it feels great when you address a rally. I also wanted to go 71
into politics because I wanted to serve the country and wanted to influence people. The same thing is happening
in my life today as I imagined in my life as a child
because I have always believed that our thoughts are
compelling and I always thought about what I wanted
because I was confident that I would get everything I
