Most people have it all backwards.
They think that if they have certain things (education,
opportunities, money, connections, tools, experience);
then they can take the right steps (utilize their education,
take advantage of the opportunities, invest the money,
leverage their connections, make use of the tools, use
their experience) and, as a result be successful.
Even many of the so-called personal development gurus
and success coaches get it wrong.
They will tell you that the success formula is: 1) get the
right information, 2) put it to work in your life and 3) you
will be successful. It almost makes sense, doesn’t it? But
it is not. This is backwards. The formula is not have, then
do in order to be. This is like swimming upstream.
Wouldn’t you rather go with the natural flow of things?
The formula is, and always has been… Be > Do > Have.
I prefer to say it this way because it is a continuous
progression: Become > Enact > Attain.
Become what you need to be
in order to
Enact what needs to be done
in order to
Attain what you desire to have.
Everyone clamors for more; more stuff, more money,
more success, more satisfaction, more acclaim, more
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fulfillment, more happiness, more love. Now you know
that the secret is that in order to have more, you must
first become more.
How do you become more?
Who you are depends upon what you think about all day
long, what you believe to be true about yourself and your
world, how you feel about yourself and your place in the
world and what level of intentionality you bring to bear
on everything that you do.
So, in order to become more, learn to think bigger and
better thoughts, learn to place your attention on the
ideals you create, rather than on the passing events and
circumstances of everyday life; learn to adopt
empowering beliefs about your potentiality and about
the possibilities that are available to you; learn to respect
and honor yourself and learn to be passionate about your
ideals; and learn to always be on purpose instead of
allowing yourself to get distracted from becoming,
enacting and attaining ever more.
Create a grand new Prosperity Paradigm for yourself and
for your world. The world needs you to be successful.
When you adopt the Prosperity Paradigm for yourself,
you also create a new vibrational pattern in the collective
unconscious of all humanity and thereby, you make it
possible for more people to become capable of achieving
their own success and abundance.
So, go ahead and create that massive success you have
always dreamt about. You deserve it.
Leslie Fieger
June 21, 2008
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Appendix One
Abraham Maslow based his psychology on his studies of
healthy and successful people rather than taking the
direction of most psychologists and studying illness. He
discovered that most, if not all, healthy individuals are
motivated toward becoming self-actualized.
My guess is that includes you.
Maslow’s model proposes that individuals move up from
one level to the next only when the needs of the lower
level are satisfied. It is an effective way to look at what
motivates people to live the way they live.
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However, people often forego the needs of a so-called
lower level in order to pursue the needs of a higher level,
sometimes at a huge detrimental cost to their overall
well-being.
I believe that prosperity, wealth, happiness, personal
fulfillment and self-actualization are achieved when a
satisfying balance of all aspects of your beingness is
achieved. I define those five aspects as being material,
physical, emotional, mental and spiritual.
Let’s take a quick look at how Maslow defines each of his
five areas…
Physiological Needs: breath, water, food, shelter, sex.
Safety Needs: physical safety, physical health, financial
security.
Belongingness Needs:
friendship, family, sexual
intimacy, love.
Esteem Needs: self-respect, confidence, achievement,
respect of others.
Self-Actualization: need to learn, explore, discover and
create; desire to grow, to transcend self, to contribute to
others.
What are your primary motivators? Where is your
attention focused?
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Appendix Two
Free Resources from Leslie Fieger
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The Seven Spiritual Laws Of Success: A Practical Guide
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Napoleon Hills Keys To Success by Napoleon Hill
Secrets of the Millionaire Mind - Mastering the Inner
Game of Wealth by Harv Eker
The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity by Catherine Ponder
The Instant Millionaire by Mark Fisher 174
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Become what you need to be
in order to
Enact what needs to be done
in order to
Attain what you desire to have.
Always remember that you do deserve
to be the success you desire.
Become an envisioneer.
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Prosperity is the abundance of
ALL things held ideal in mind
and dear in heart.
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Your Prosperity Paradigm
11 Steps to Creating & Living a Super Successful Life
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This book is dedicated to my parents, Audrey and Al
Fieger, who brought me into this world, gave me so great
a head start on the adventure, were there to support me
when I stumbled, celebrated my successes and are still
my cheerleaders. My parents are my heroes.
They grew up during the great depression and were able
to come out of that difficult time, forge a path for
themselves and build a life of substance, plus create an
attitude of open ended possibilities for their nine
children.
Amongst the hundreds of books in my house, as I was
growing up, were such success classics as Napoleon
Hill’s Think and Grow Rich, Dale Carnegie’s How to
Win Friends and Influence People and even that great LP
recording from Earl Nightingale, The Strangest Secret.
I also grew up listening to Harry Belafonte sing The
Banana Boat Song “Come Mr. Tally man, tally me
banana…” and other calypso songs.
It is no wonder I now live in the Caribbean and write
books about creating success.
Thanks Al and Audrey for everything.
This book is also dedicated to you, the reader. I hope it
serves you.
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