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With Love from Athens

Brasov, 10 November 2011

Today my nose flows from the left nostril.

According to tradition, tomorrow the right one

will do the same. If I'm lucky, it will stop with

that. If not, the day after tomorrow I will cough.

The coughing may take longer; two days, maybe

three. So it usually happens every fall and spring.

I had left to Athens, just in order to avoid the

cold season from Brasov, but I had to go back

for few days. Just a few days were sufficient to

get sick. Now I need to sit quietly in the house

and heal. Next week I have to get back in Athens

with his wife.

As quiet as I am, a regret is crossing my mind: I

did not keep a diary during my trip in Athens.

Interesting events occurred there and it would

useful to print them. Unfortunately, I had no

time to put down impressions. I had a job. The

aim of the trip was to rent a studio or a small

apartment. Before to rent, it must be found. I

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have done it, but, with that, things were not

finished. In order to convince my wife that my

choice was good, I had to make it as attractive

as possible. The first thing was cleanliness. At

first view, everything seemed to be very clean. I

believed that a small finishing would bring it on

the verge of perfection. Here I was wrong.

Cleaning was superficial. Little by little, I had to

word harder and harder. Finally, I succeeded, I

think. Then, I had to do some shopping. I did not

know from where, as supermarkets like in

Romania there were not to be found, I do not

know Greek language, in short, a lot of small and

great problems. Of course I wanted to visit the

area - very beautiful and interesting, however. It

wasn’t about relaxed. I was busy all the time.

Not keeping a log, not noting impression, it seems

that I was the best in cleaning. I knew that this

was just the beginning and that I will have

enough time later, what was picking up somewhat

my morale, although first impression always are

more relevant. Later, they lose the glow, so to

say, become flat and – God forbid – priggishness.

Now, that I have a little fever, an idea came to

me: from Athens I wrote every day letters

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toward my spouse; these letters may take place

the diary. I used to write them during the

morning to be sure that I would not give up later;

excuses are easy to find. I thought to copy them,

as they comprise just my impression of that time.

The fact that I have fever now is not important,

as I propose to copy them tale quale. Besides,

perhaps the fever is not very high.

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My dear,

Despite of a little promising start, the trip to

Bucharest developed in better conditions than

I hope. The minibus came from Sibiu almost

ful , so that there were not places for al of

us. Consequently, they put at your disposal an

elegant mini-microbus of 9 seats, with which

we got at the destination more comfortable.

From Bucharest to Athens I went with the

coach in conditions known by you from the

previous trip in April, when we went together.

Even at the hotel, I found the same crabby

receptionist, except that, this time, I

renounced to receive the rest of few money

and this little tip was enough to turn him into

a very kind man. I had not to wait til twelve

o’clock, when of icial y the day starts in

hotels; he immediate gave me a room, and not

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one single, but double. Actual y I don't know

if the hotel has single rooms and I do not see

why would have, since the size of the rooms

al ow a bed big enough for two persons. Only

twin rooms, i.e. those with two separate beds,

need a little more space. Final y, I am wel

instal ed in the hotel, ready to start looking

for renting an apartment, in which we wil

spend together the autumn-winter season, wet

and cold in Brasov, but much more gentle and

dry here. I do not begin the searching right

now, because I am tired and sleepless after

the travel, but tomorrow morning I wil do it

for sure.

A few observations on climate I can note just

now: though autumn begins, the leaf of trees

is far greener than in Romania and there are

stil flowers on some bushes. I identified only

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roses; the others are unknown to me. Yes, I

know the reply: "anyway you do not get good

at flowers". It is true, I do not know much

about flowers, but I appreciate their beauty,

regardless of name.

Now I am going to do a smal strol to the

mail, for buying Greek stamps and send this

smal first letter.

Athens, 21 September 2011

- - - - -

I dreamed that I was a civil servant somewhere

and I have been advanced as great head

elsewhere – to the col eagues’ envy and

bewilderment. In my new function, it was that

I was accompanying Ceauchescu in a visit to

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an international exhibition. Among other

things, on a panel, some symbols were

displayed for showing what place in the world

each country occupies. I remarked the 3rd

place occupied by the USSR for bicycles.

Ceaushescu wanted to take the symbol of

Romania and to place it instead of the USSR,

but an of icial had explained that he couldn’t

do that; someone else decides there. In the

next phase of the dream, I was proposed to

lead a delegation of Romania in a foreign

country. This time, Basescu was the chief.

The purpose of the delegation was to carry a

precious fish, which he had received as a gift.

You see, he was very fond of it. In that

country, there was another fish, of the same

species, with which he was to couple. At a

meeting with some Chinese, who made team

with us in the same delegation, the

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representative of China was unhappy that the

old Romanian delegate had been replaced with

me. In the meantime, I had realized that al

changes were only wider manoeuvres, aiming to

mask the change of some important persons. In

this situation, I took the opportunity and told

that, if the Chinese does not want me, I

withdraw. Being liberated from any obligation,

I was free to rumble on the streets, among

the participants in a scrol like those on 1 May

and 23 August, the political holidays during

the communist regime. I was again back in

Ceaushescu’s era. As nothing important could

happen, I got bored and woke up. It was

8:30 in the morning, so I hurried not to miss

the breakfast, the most important meal of the

day for me now.

Athens, 22 September 2011

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- - - - -

I write in the morning and not during the

evening - as you maybe expect - for two

reasons. In the evening, particularly after a

hectic day, I could be tired and marked by

recent events. In the morning, instead, I am

rested, the night sat down the incidents in my

mind and I can make a better synthesis of

events. The second reason is a very pragmatic

one: the temperature during the day is much

dif erent face to that of the mornings; dressed

suitable for morning coolness, I should wear

the surplus of clothes in hand during the rest

of the day. If I stay a little more in the

house, I can leave dressed casual, with the

condition to get back home before coming the

night, when the temperature drops again.

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The first news of yesterday was a bad on one

for me: because of a strike, public transport

was out of work. It seemed to be a dead day

for investigation. The second news redressed

somewhat the first one. The owner of one of

the housing (identified by me on the

Internet) of ered himself to come at the hotel

and pick up me for seeing his apartment. Cut

from their part! He doesn’t speak any language

except the Greek, I do not speak Greek, but

his daughter, Amalia, knows English and was

our translator. She speaks much better than

me, as she works in England, being on vacation

now.

The house I have seen is on one of the hil s

from Athens. The owners have another

daughter, living here, who knows some English,

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so that we wil be able to communicate in this

way, after Amalia wil be gone in London.

Also, there is another lodger, a teacher of

English, who could help me. The hil , on which

lies the house, is a big one and relatively far

away from the centre, but close enough in

comparison with other districts, Athens being a

city extremely stretched. Besides, there are

shops nearly with almost everything you need,

so moving into other areas of the city,

including the centre, is not required for usual

shopping. A particular and appealing element:

a few steps from the house there is a park.

During we drive toward to house, I said that it

seems to me there are fewer Africans on the

streets now, face during the spring. Do you

remember how many of them were in April. I

thought then they came recently and wil

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disappear soon. She proudly answered me that

they are here to col ect garbage and that,

perhaps, there is no longer what to col ect.

She seems to be very arrogant. Meanwhile, I

found that Africans are stil present, even

more. My remark from yesterday that they

would be fewer was inaccurate, and Amalia’s

replica too. I think of them and I cannot

reject the idea that, however, they are some

individuals who have risked, maybe, their life to

arrive here, like the Romanians fleeing the

country before 1989. The majority of the

Africans come from countries that have been

helped and – as everywhere happens – the aid

produced only negative ef ects. At the

individual level, the Chinese proverb "If you

want to help someone, don't give him a fish;

you teach him how to fish" is known from

ancient times. At the macro level, we see what

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happens now: a few people get rich and others

become unemployed Al of them become lazy

and do not think to work. That’s way I am

inclined to grant circumstances those who have

gone in search of something better in Europe.

Most of them seem peaceful; there are others

worse and these ones did not leave because of

the poverty.

In the evening I went out for a little walk and

“to take pulse" of Athens. It is said that the

al people know here English language, because

they learned it at school. In one my first

conversation with a guy, I started to tel that

his clothes are the colours of the Romanian

flag: red, yel ow and blue. I replied that his

name is Vasilis. Our discussion went on in the

same friendly understanding.

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Athens, September 23, 2011

- - - - -

The owner of an apartment that I visited

yesterday gave me meeting in front of the

“Municipal Hospital”. I suppose it is not the

single. This one is located in the most pol uted

area I ever seen. It is on the ring road

coming from the southern of Attica peninsula,

crosses with avenues from the centre of

Athens and arrives in the port of Pireu. I just

got passed on there and felt that I no longer

can breathe. I assume that, for admission

inside, they check the health of the patients,

to see if this al ows them to resist there

during the time of hospitalisation, because only

healthy patients could be treated in that

hospital.

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* * *

Through the window of the hotel, I see a

parking lot. In the morning it is empty.

People come, leave the car at the entry,

opened and with keys in contact. An employee

arranges them side-by-side, so that after a

couple of hours, the entire parking lot is ful .

Not a single square metre is free. In time,

some people come to take their cars and

others come to leave theirs. For extracting a

car, he pul s out in the street – a very

crowded one – al the cars in front of it.

Afterwards, he moves them in the same place.

The man is very busy the whole day. Sisif,

that from the Greek legend, is a pale example

in comparison with our man’s work.

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* * *

The Greeks think they are the embodiment of

democracy. They have it in mind, not in life!

The worst is that they do not observe what

happens around them, that the society is not

at al concerned with the status of those with

modest incomes. Public transport, for example,

is despicable. Buses and trol ey buses are rare

and can be crowded more than during the

Romanian "golden age".

* * *

During the Middle Ages, people had a smart

idea: the leadership of the city was provided

by a council of the guilds. Citizens used to

vote at the level of their understanding. They

chose some representatives of the guilds and

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these representatives were discussing and

solved the important problems of the city.

Athens, September 24, 2011

- - - - -

Generaly, Greek women are not just pretty,

but - once you get used with the general view

– you can see on some of them even nice

details, as sign that everything is relative. The

eyes have drawn my attention the most. I

never saw so far so black eyes. Not dark brown

but black. And more black are the eyes more

white are the sclera. Black and large eyes!

They are the most attractive when are

cheerless. Most commonly happens to young

women.

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There are some fatty Greek women, some even

very fatty, but surprisingly few. Very fatty

man I do not remember to have seen so far.

Most women have a normal physical

constitution, almost enviable. As regards the

American women, if they ever visited Greece,

certainly wil not repeat the mistake; the

silhouette of Greed women would provoke them

a crisis by envy and, perhaps, profound mental

disorders.

There is however, a reverse of the medal: very

thin women. Some are so thin that seems a

miracle that they can move their bones with so

few muscles. And not only that they do it,

but make it with great vigour. Have a forcible

walk, energetic and determined. You may not

suspect them of inanition. The only

explanation is their nervous system. It

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provides to them a great power consumption,

even for nothing. Almost al smoke and no

anyway, but continuously, in any position,

even on the motorcycle. Real y! I saw just

yesterday on a motorcycle a lady leading with

one hand, with the cigarette in the other and

a child at the chest. Not a little child, but

one at least two years.

Athens, September 25, 2011

(I am founding now, copying the letters from

Greece, that I was harsh with Greek women. There

are many normal women, maybe the majority. But,

as what I wrote was the first impression, that which

shocked me, I leave it as it is. As for the fatty ones,

they are enough in Athens. I suppose they were

staying at shadow during my visit. So it explains

why I did not remark them. Only the thin ones

ventures to walk on heat.

As for girls, the truth is that those from Greece are

as nice as all the girls in the world. Some are even

beautiful. Due to the mixture of races, some can

have special features, making them very interesting.

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Up to 30 years! Later, they gain rough, almost

masculine features. The loveliness sweetness

disappears. The reasons are not hard to intuit: they

shall keep the household, caring for children, ...

Hard life ...

Many older people are short, some very short. The

youngest have "European" heights. It seems that, in

the meanwhile, they have mixed with people of

different ethnicities. An apart category forms the

persons extremely fat, particularly women. It is a

hormonal disturbance, but I do not know the cause.

Perhaps, their parents, who wanted tall children,

have given them an incentive, whose effect was

limited to the lower half of the body. Their number is

surprisingly great. Also, the number of old women

with failure to walk, due to illness is impressive.

I also have a good note for Greek women. The

fashion "waist low" has not caught on in Athens. I

must admit that I find it horrible and totally

disadvantageous for its adepts but…. Turkish

influence is stronger in Romania than in Greece.

And I give them a good note for their heels. Not of

those of Achilles; of the women: I have not seen

unkempt heels.) This is their merit. Nature was also

generous with their ankles; most women have

slender ankles and, I must recognise, the shanks

are also fine at most women, even of those easy

overweight. Further, as up you look, things begin to

be more or less full of light and shade. And if you

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have arrived at the head, see that it should have

been changed anyway.)

- - - - -

In principle, everything is wel, less the fact

that I am alone. On the other hand, running

al day, we could not be together, so I'd be

alone too. Now, it is 3: 25 in the night. I

don't know if I have waked up by some thick-

skinned Danish making noise in the hotel, or I

woke up by myself, because I slept early, at

21 o’clock. (I was too tired to do anything

else.) It is a young drunk girl who fosters the

scandal of the Danes. Women become

embarrassing when are drunk.

* * *

At the end of each day, during which I cross

the boulevards of Athens searching a house for

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us, I have the neck more irritated as it was

after a night-party, in the times when I was a

smoker. Surely, an apartment in such areas

should be a certain disease. In addition, the

noise is terrible, especial y due to the

motorcycles.

The ofer on the hil seems to be the best

from this point of view as wel . There, the air

is fresh, it is silence, and the district almost

select. Anyway, the neighbourhood is quiet

and – probably - away from thieves.

Unfortunately, the park, about which I wrote,

is in vicinity only in straight line. The streets

are more tortuous and the distance increases.

The hosts seem to be decent people, but I

may be subjective and influenced by the fact

they were the only ones who came to take me

by car from the hotel. Everyone else fixed the

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place of meeting; I had to identify the place

on the map and learn the means of transport

up to there.

I can’t research the vilages in the vicinity of

Athens, because I do not know the Greek

language, and ordinary people there do not

know the other language, some not even Latin

characters, although the signs on every street

are written both in Greek and Latin. Yes, in

Greek schools, the pupils learn English

language but, unfortunately, not al adults

know English...

I hope that, in time, we can investigate the

area together.

* * *

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Trying to get information about Greece, I have

found something interesting. There is in the

mountains of Greece an ethnic group that is

named “Vlachs”. I found it in National