WHEN THINGS GO WRONG IN SEX LIFE
Sexual problems could begin anytime in one’s life. There is no hard and fast, and no specific set of rules that may define or pinpoint sexual problems in one’s life. The child may be born with sexual deficiency or develop one gradually. Most of the time, sex problem develops with stress, unhealthy life style, medication and so many factors, as said earlier.
Behavioral treatment, counseling and changes in lifestyle with some medication may treat problems related to orgasm, erectile dysfunction and low libido in women.
In many cases guidance and sex education may also help. Sex therapy and psychotherapy helps too.
Sexual dysfunction if not treated, as said earlier, may lead to a turmoil in one’s married life and also make the person withdraw from active life and society.
If the dysfunction is getting serious, please visit your doctor. This problem is mostly corrected by getting a diagnosis done for the cause; opening to your partner about this issue, changing your lifestyle, changing the pattern of your work, re-inventing ways to have sex with your partner-maybe a holiday to a faraway quiet resort.
Sexual problem could be classified into four different categories: Desire syndrome, arousal syndrome, orgasm syndrome and pain syndrome.
DESIRE SYNDROME: Low libido in women and the loss of desire and interest in sex amongst men.
AROUSAL SYNDROME: Inability to get aroused physically, at the time of sexual activity.
ORGASM SYNDROME: Inability to reach climax or orgasm in women
PAIN SYNDROME: In women, pain during penetration is regarded as sexual problem.
Reasons for all the above syndromes could be physiological, psychological, medical, environmental or social.
Sometimes talking to your partner, help improve the sex situation behind closed doors. Most of the time, the problem is mental than physical. Whatever the case may be, you can even analyze your sexual problem and try to avoid those which aggravates the situation in the bedroom; such as pain, privacy, tiredness, stress or anger.
Sometimes pheromone perfume works and has scientific backing. Medication or any artificial aid makes a woman feel inadequate sexually. Therefore, it is imperative both partners encourage the use of such aids to make the situation feel normal.
Sex therapy is another tool to solve sex problem. Both partners could benefit from therapy, most of the time it works and normalizes the situation.
You have purchased this book only because you would like to solve your sexual problem yourself rather than talk to your doctor or any sexologist, which is uncomfortable not only for you but for anybody. This book will endeavor to show you the ways in which you may solve your sexual problem and lead a normal sex life again. Try to follow the guidelines in this book religiously, giving it some time to see results.
Worry, depression, anger, frustration, withdrawal from society or any such behavior is useless and a hindrance to your, leading a happy and healthy sexual life again. If you keep worrying, it turns into a disease by itself. Have a positive attitude and you will experience a change in your behavior and gradually you will experience a permanent cure to your problem without much medication or professional help.