concept everybody should grasp as a
cornerstone in social relations; it's
called: the FC or freedom circlefreedom circle.
This represents your highlights and
guidelines for a better social behavior. Imagine a double circle just
like a CD; this double circle
represents
every human being on earth!(Fig.1)
Lookatfigure(1).
The small black circle inside symbolizes
the person himself, while the white circle
around it symbolizes his freedom league.
This circle indicates one's boundaries,
what he does or does not accept within his
own space to keep a comfortable state. It can be wider or narrower according to
people's types, thoughts, educational
levels and cultural backgrounds, but it
does exist for every body somehow.
Every body have their own freedom circle
around them, and they'd rather keep it
clean with no interference what so ever,
which is technically impossible given that
we are not living alone on the planet, and
any close contact with others guarantees
this interference. No body can live without
interference unless of course they want to
become socially isolated. If you wish to know what could happen for
a socially isolated person you could look at
a homeless, those are mainly people who
couldn’t bare any kind of interference and
thought that isolation will grant them
comfort and peace, and even those get still
their share of interference from time to
time.
Such an extreme image gives you an idea
about how far people would go just to
reserve their freedom circle and keep it
interference-free, it’s an instinct to feel
free, and it should be rule number one in
dealing with any human being.
Nowlookatfigure(2).
As people get closer the
interference gets greater, until
it reaches its maximum limit
between married couples. SeeFig. 3
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