4 What He Says versus What He Means
One common mistake the majority of women make, is to believe what a man says he wants, is what he truly wants. So she modifies her behavior accordingly, in the hope that she will make herself desirable.
This will never work.
The reason is not because she's not smart.
It's not because she's not working hard enough.
The real reason is because she has the wrong source for her information.
A man's words are the most unreliable source of information you can use to trigger desire and passion in him.