Many times, the teacher would speak about
the concept of a thorny way and a smooth path
full of roses in the context of choosing an
appropriate spiritual practice.
He was associating the thorny way with the
masculine principle. It’s more rational, more
intense and serious. He was saying that taking
up a difficult task you discipline yourself more
and progress faster. But you can easily slip
down and fall, and it’s hard to rise up again
and continue your journey.
The path full of roses he was associating with
the feminine principle. It’s more loving, playful
and flexible. I remember him saying that if
meditating for 2 hours a day is too much for
you at the moment, you can start with
something you truly enjoy.
It could be playing a musical instrument,
drawing or taking care of your garden. It can
be anything. Whatever you personally like and
don’t feel pressured to practice on a daily
basis, choose that. Then you gradually master
the skill you’ve selected and have a core
practice to stick to.