The smoker’s analogy and how it applies to porn addiction
The legend says that if a smoker went 4 Hours a day without smoking, they’d kill somebody, but most smokers would not smoke in the toilet. They would not smoke while the car’s windows are open; in fact, they would hardly smoke at all when busy. They would buy groceries, clothes, pursue business affairs, and attend reunions without smoking at all. Smokers are almost pleased when something interferes with their smoking needs.
Most porn addicts would not think about watching porn while their parents are at home and are pleased not to view it. This should give you hope that you are complicating things for yourself. As illustrated, it appears that not viewing porn isn’t impossible. One can go for days and even months without using it.
You have been deeply brainwashed to think that once an addict, always an addict. But it is entirely untrue, and it might be a big reason you fail to quit porn even after multiple attempts. You can give up on porn, and you’d better believe that with 100% certainty if you want to be done with this problem once and for all.
It is never too late to stop. Put in your mind that you can always revert to factory settings. It might not be a comfortable experience, but it is entirely achievable. You just have to believe in yourself and not let doubt, confusion, and brainwashing get in your way.