Example 1: A mind map in progress. Lara wants to be a wife and mother someday, aside from having her health, beauty, and her own business. Finding her lifetime partner via dates is something she must prepare for.
Don’t be surprised either if, in your case, dating takes up only a small section. It simply means your inner self is saying you’ll be happier concentrating on other aspects of your life for now, rather than agonizing over finding the love of your
life 
today.
Example 2: A mind map in progress. Joe wants to be a successful lawyer,
and is already planning for his retirement. He needs to quit smoking. He’s also slightly overweight and beset with skin problems. He probably felt
insecure about his appearance since childhood, and now wants a complete makeover. Would finding a lifetime partner be top priority for him?