12. Look for women where you are the most comfortable
Not everybody wants to go to the bar or the club to find women, and that's fine. While it is true that you are more likely to find women who want to be approached in those places, it is not necessary for you to go to a party atmosphere to meet women.
For people that like going to party-style environments, these places are great. They feel like they are playing on their home turf, so there is much less discomfort for them than say, a guy whose evenings are spent sipping coffee at the local Starbucks reading the paper or working on his novel.
If you are the type of guy who loves going to bars and clubs and parties, keep on truckin'. If not, don't fret!
I'll let you in on a little secret: Women are EVERYWHERE.
Seriously, everywhere. The world is packed full of women. Statistically speaking, barring a few exceptions such as China and India, women outnumber men on this planet, so don't believe for a second that they all congregate at the bar every Friday and Saturday, because it's just not true.
And no, that's not even where all the hot ones are.
Women come in all different flavors, and you can bet your britches that there are women who share your interests. So why not look for women in a way that makes you comfortable, or in an environment that feels right to you?
If you are a book worm, go to the library. If you are really internet-savvy, try online dating. If you are an avid bowler, go to the bowling alley.
Now, there are some activities that generally either don't attract women or decrease your odds of finding a woman in the area. Hunting, for example, is not a good way to meet new people. Part of the fundamental aspects of hunting are solitude and silence, so unless you are looking for a banshee who lives in the forest, don't expect to find the girl of your dreams.
But there are plenty of places that are rich in beautiful women that you may find interesting. Are you interested in massage or yoga? You better go sign up, because women are also interested. Culinary arts? Do it! Volunteer work?
Have at it.
In fact, a recent study showed that women who are in "mating mode" tend to gravitate towards activities like volunteering or community service. Men tended do things like buy fancy cars or yachts or big screen TVs, but guys, let's be real. I can't afford a yacht. Hell, I can't afford a big screen TV!
Be proactive, and find activities that you genuinely want to pursue, and chances are you will find women there. And it's not just that you will find women there. You will find women who you already have something in common with. How hard is it to start a conversation about something you enjoy doing and you know she enjoys also? It's easy as pie.
Don't feel confined to the club and the bar. There is a whole plethora of places you can go to find women. Go where you are comfortable and where you feel most at home, and it will be that much easier for you.