3. Why do people follow a routine?
I'm just going to come out and say it and spare you all the sugar coating and BS:
People follow a routine because they believe that their "self" is not attractive enough to hot women. That's why people at the club all wear the same thing, that's why guys shower girls with compliments, and that's why, no matter what they do, they will always fail with women.
They are just not comfortable with who they are, otherwise they would look unique and act uniquely, because everyone is unique.
No two people are the same. We all know this is true.
So what does the PUA community try to do to address this problem? They get you to follow a different routine, but it's still a routine. It doesn't fix the actual problem, but instead treats the symptoms.
While all those PUA gurus offer valuable insight into the world of women and sexual attraction, this whole "you need to build an avatar" mentality is absurd and counter-productive.
Sure they can show you results and go pick up a woman right before your eyes and then try to sell you their style. The problem is that their style is their style. It probably doesn't work for you because you are different.
The whole avatar thing is great for people like Mystery. He is a magician for crying out loud! Of course that is going to work for him!
But are you a magician? Do you share the same interests? passions?
Probably not.