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Watch and learn
In the last few weeks you have been a student of what it takes to be happy. You should be looking for more opportunities to observe people interact too. You will see them act on their instincts. Remember this as you watch unhappy singles around your locale. For some people, the hard part of being in this observation mode is learning not to interfere with others who don't seem to be very happy. Stay away.
You made your choice. You are not working on anyone else's life. You need to observe people and decide to socialize with the happiest humans you can find. Be a friend to yourself first and follow through on that choice. If you bump into a real sad sack of bones, don't judge the person. Don't try to help a depressed person. It is not your job. It is not my job. Professional therapists are trained to diagnose and counsel these folks. Though it seems that your study of Singleship has given you some special new insights to life, and you feel like you should share it with others, you will likely make matters worse for your sad friend.
Do not interfere with another person's choice to be unhappy.
Now is the time to put your sunglasses on and watch humans do what they need to do to feel safe. After you observe people group and exchange intimacy, there should be a new type of confidence you never had before as a single person. This comes from the feeling that you are more prepared to manage your life than before.
Use the smooch and throw technique from letter prompt M. Write down the stupid things you have done to others. Smooch. Throw. Breathe. Forgive yourself for not being perfect.
Get rid of any guilt you may have in your life. Write down anything that have done or not done that makes you feel some guilt and symbolically throw it away in the trash.
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