The Phenomenon: How to Become One by Samuel Ufot Ekekere - HTML preview

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Send fear to OBLIVION

 

A major factor that diminishes the chance of a person achieving a set out goal or a defined phenomenal status is fear. There is always the fear factor hanging around that as much as a person strives to get at his potential phenomenal position, this weighs him back. Fear is a heavy stone on the back of any contender however gifted or talented he may be. It’s the possibility of taking that stone off that usually becomes burdensome. Since the stone has always being there on their backs, the average man does not see the possibility of having the stone off his back. He expects life to be burdensome and so it is.

For the phenomenon, fear must go. He picks the load off his back, pushes it and eases himself to the full possibilities that should be part of his life. The phenomenon sees potentials all the way and anything that can be a hindrance, he sets apart and builds himself with the notion that he is in for a life of possibilities.

The phenomenon understands that the initial fear always exist and he has the biggest fears however his peaceful demeanor. What distinguishes those who are crushed and those who achieve phenomenal status is how they both relate to fear. Its either you accept your fears and fall under its hammer or you accept the fears still and work against it.

The phenomenon’s achievements are always driven by fear, the fear of failing. This is the instigating factor that causes him to work excellently hard so as to avoid what his fears drives him to think. No one like to fail and the phenomenon hates to fail excellent. This attribute stirs his inner quest, propelling him towards the big picture he has in his mental world.

FEAR refers to

  • False
  • Experience
  • Appearing
  • Real

What fear does is make something that is false look like it’s authentic. What mostly we fear about are only concepts that has never happened which we only feel will but which the possibility of it happening is doubtful even in the realm of common sense.

  • Frivolous
  • Expressions
  • Appearing as
  • Reality

Sometimes it’s the statements people make that we accept as true when indeed such statements are untrue. People may have conjured some fearful hate statements. These statements often seem like they could happen in real life but in the real world they are only mere threats. People subject themselves under the statements of others and they never do beyond their present capability even they have the capacity to do more.

  • Feeble
  • Emotions
  • Appearing
  • Real

Sometimes it’s our thoughts or feelings that we accept as being strong enough to guide us in making decision. Or our hearts is feeble we think we cannot make the right decisions or lack the capacity to carry out that action that we consider necessary or important. This inability on our part builds fear in our hearts. However it’s our emotions. It can be wrong. Don’t let how you feel stop you from doing that great accomplishment that you so much desire to accomplish.

  • Faltering
  • Emissions
  • Altering
  • Reality

Sometimes we make mistakes of releasing information or something that we so cherished or guarded. This faltered step so blinds our eyes from seeing from a different perspective. We feel that our unguarded information can be used against us. This feeling puts fear in our heart taking away from ourselves the consciousness of who we really are and giving our minds to frivolous thoughts.

However the fear and its cause that has rendered us incapacitated in pushing our dream, we can send them to oblivion. How about that?

You can

Order your fears out. The power in your fears is you allowing it stay. You have the words of power to kick them out. Just give the words of order, “get out fear” and it will obey.

Bind the fear causer. Knowing the root cause of your fear can help you develop a strategy for kicking it out of your life. You can bind the cause of that fear.

Leverage on possibilities. Rather than focus on what causes the fear, focus your mind on the possibilities beyond the fear. Focus till all you see is possibilities fear becomes too small to be considered.

Idolize your ideal phenomenal status. What you really want to have is an ideal that you must be crazy about. It must take over you remove all possibilities of doubts and propel you towards its accomplishment

Vaunt about your present achievements. You have achieved quite a lot even if you haven’t achieved all you desire to achieve. Vaunting allows you the free space to see yourself as having accomplished something. It steers fear away helping you acknowledge that if you have achieved a little, you can achieve more.

Internalize the “I can do all things” statement. You can do all things and everything you want to do. Fear makes you see the opposite but right inside you is the always possible trait. Speak it and act.

Obliterate any trace of failure. Those past failures are past. You can’t afford to allow them live in the present.  Remove completely any past failures and arise to a board where you can write new possibilities.

Nullify any fear thoughts. You can afford to make useless any fearful thoughts. Success is a mental state and the moment one is able to control that mental state, he can do more. Close any chance fear may pop in and live a proactive life.

Once you’ve let fear have its way, it destroys even your strongest chance you can do great things. Its good you find a way to knock them off become you become another statistic of those who allowed fear ruin their lives. Act now before you allow fear

  • End your good financial fortunes. Some persons have lost wealth just because they gave in to Mr. Fear’s succinct but incredulous advice.
  • Limit your education. Some persons would have become professors or renowned scholars in a chosen profession but they allow fear in and they got limited.
  • Change your attitude. Some persons who were highfliers and possibility thinkers have given up that high placed position to fear. They allowed fear’s lies control how their mindset evolves creating for them an attitudinal problem that they had once being over.
  • End you in requiem. After all about life is lost, fear would push you top death. Many persons have died not because they should have died but because of the fear they had. For fear, some had hit the road when they should not have and got hit.

You can’t afford to allow fear rule how you think or relate with people in life. You will never see the right picture when there is fear. Change your attitude, send fear where it belongs, the phenomenal life will dare.